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Avoiding eye contact dating

And while aspects of your identity definitely shape who you are, nobody should be bringing up the topic of your identity markers without asking whether it is OK first.

You want to be with someone because you like being with them.

So much of dating seems to reinforce a person's insecurity: What you are wearing, what you talk about, and what signals you give off are all like tiny offerings for someone to judge you.

On a first date, I think it's healthier to assume that everyone likes you.

Instead, they want to turn you into a person they expect you to be.