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Though there weren't that many years difference between us, it sort of bothered me.

Being gay, if I was cursed to appear anywhere near my chronological age, I'd probably end it here and now r46 and you will be 45 on your birthday- It changes nothing and when you are 55 you will look 45-.

So what you are saying you only have ten years left to live beacuse you are so shallow that you think if you look 45 - Its not worth living?

I've always been one to seek out men for relationships who have been on earth about as long as I have, because that's where the most comfort and commonality can occur with a stranger. I don't know if it's because I didn't have a relationship in my 20s or because the younger guys have the look that attracts me -- not many guys in their 40s can pull off the hipster look and not appear ridiculous. I then realized that dating as a 50-year-old was going to be a lot more difficult than when I was 30 for a variety of reasons, including (a) there just aren’t as many guys in my age group; and (b) a lot of them are already partnered. OP, I'm 49, I have no particular interest in guys in their 20s or even their 30s for the most part, but I'm on Scruff and I'm constantly getting messages, woofs, etc., from guys in their 20s - much more than any other age bracket. If you plan to visit the daddy sites that are recommended here, you'd better beef up your bank account.

I also noticed that many – [bold]not all,[/bold] but many – of the ones who are available:(1) only want to date guys who are in their 20s and early 30s;(2) have never been in a long-term relationship; if you are in your 50s, and you have never had a relationship that lasted longer than a few dates or a few months, that could be a real problem;(3) just gave up on themselves, i.e., decided that they no longer had to take care of how they look (as in they don’t go near a gym and make exceptionally poor eating choices), and complain about their “ailments” as if they are 85 and in a nursing home;(4) are either just plain weird or have a harsh, bitter, jaded edge that is really unpleasant to be around. As I said, slim, but not nonexistent, so, hope springs eternal. It's a little annoying to me, but anyway it happens so you might as well try. Because younger guys looking for older men are looking for someone to take care of them.

In my opinion, what's attractive in a guy in his 40s or older is that he's more likely to have his shit together, personally and professionally.

The guy I've been seeing is financially secure (relatively well-off, but certainly not rich).

We talked about the age difference once and he said he thought it was hot.